Teens Need Love, Positive Direction and a Safe Environment


Although results like this are unlikely at most teen boot camps and there were certainly other significant factors at play consider the following scenario: a mother has a 14-year old son who was recently arrested for shoplifting and not more than a couple of months after that incident, the teenager slashed his mothers tires on her new car. Finally, the mother is said to be at her witts end and she was finally given a reprieve; a judge ordered that the child must attend a privately paid boot camp that promised to teach this young, impressionable teenager discipline, but with a military twist. She was told that her son will be taught how to respect elders and authority within a five-week period. However, within a week, her son, Tony H_____, was found face down in a motel bathtub. According to the report, Tony had vomiting blood and then drowned in water and dirt. The entire problem with this story is that one day later Tonya's mother was told about the extreme and unproven methods used at this boot camp by turning disobedient teenagers into dutiful men or women.

Teens from specific sections within society face different forms of treatment, or, in some cases, a total lack of love, appreciation or affection. For example, teens who have endured years of abuse, being sent from one foster home to another often have no hope but to realize that they are not wanted and, perhaps even worse, their own parents decided to give them up to the state. Most of these teens have a lot of reasons to feel depressed, unwanted, angry and confused. These feelings are sometimes internalized for a long period of time, and then the genie is out of the bottle when they act upon this anger or other deep-seated feelings of hate and distrust. Some of them end up in juvenile centers and some are often sent to boot camps. But, putting aside all of the attitudes people know or think about boot camps, most of these teens will probably say that all they really need is someone to care for them; they want to be wanted.  And, in boot camp, such a desire is not going to be met. In fact, in boot camp, the situation is just the opposite. (1)